REDEFINED
The sistahood for single women
living boldly on their own terms.
We've been conditioned to think that we have to do life a certain way.
Go to school. Get an education. Build your career. Meet the love of your life. Get married. Have children.
But what if life doesn't turn out like that?
It's so easy to start feeling like you're failing. Like you're behind. Like everyone else got the memo and you somehow missed it.
But what if those timelines aren't the only timelines? What if there was more than one way to live a peaceful, happy, joyful, FULL life — one that isn't defined by how the world tells you it should look?
Welcome to REDEFINED — a sistahood of single women completely rewriting what their single chapter gets to mean for them.
For growth. For connection. For becoming so deeply rooted in who you are that your relationship status no longer determines how you feel about your life.
Maybe right now…
You actually LIKE your single life most of the time. You've built a good life. You're independent. You've got friends, a career, plans, holidays — but there are still moments that knock you.
Another engagement announcement. Being the only single one on the group holiday. The "have you met anyone yet?" question. Too many weekends of no plans because your friends are busy with their families. Friendships that don't feel aligned anymore because you're on a different path.
You know logically that you're not behind — but sometimes it still feels like you are.
You want the confidence to travel solo and to go and visit all the places you keep adding to your list. To feel confident to go on dates by yourself or walk into a room where you don't know anyone. Maybe you already do those things — but you're not always truly in them. You're too busy worrying about what others think to actually enjoy what you're creating for yourself.
You want to actually embrace your single chapter for the opportunity that it is - instead of waiting for "it" to happen.
REDEFINE
what it means
to be single.
Release
The timelines. The comparison. The quiet belief that being single means something is missing. Your thoughts aren't facts, and this is the space where you get to unlearn all of those stories you've learned about what a successful and joyful life looks like.We let go of the pressure and re-write the narrative together - building that deep self-trust which allows you to really OWN and EMBRACE this stage of your life.
You were never behind.
♡Reclaim
Choose you. ♡
Your time, energy, confidence, and standards. This is the space to take your power back! We're not waiting to be chosen, aimless swiping, overthinking the texts, answering the 11am “are you up” texts. You choose yourself, boldly and unapologetically. And start building a life you genuinely love waking up to, regardless of your relationship status.
Reconnect
With yourself. With what lights you up. With your desires outside of a relationship. You build a life that feels so full already, that you stop chasing and forcing things which were never meant. And with a community of women who get it and are right here with you.
You don't have to do it alone.
Redefine
There's no one way to live, love or build a life. Here, we REDEFINE the rules and create a life that actually feels aligned, exciting and deeply fulfilling. We redefine what success, love, and happiness look like on your terms... so that you start attracting exactly what is meant for you rather than letting the timeline presssures rule your decisions & feelings.
Rise
You're not on this earth to play small. It's time to take up space and create the life you actually want to live, rather than treating this phase like its something to "get through" and waiting for your "happily ever after". Start creating it.. NOW!
- ★Take the trip.
- ☆Make the move.
- ★Walk into the room alone.
- ☆Date differently.
- ☆Start the thing.
This isn't about replacing your incredible friends.
This is about EXPANDING your world.
One of the hardest things about being single, especially in your 30s, is being surrounded by friends who are on a different path than you. If everyone around you is in a different phase of their life, it's easy to feel behind. Who you surround yourself with really does matter. This is not about replacing your friends — this is about expanding your world. To women who are walking your path, women who you can have those deeper conversations with, women who celebrate everything you're doing and support you through the chaos.Women who just GET IT.
So, what's actually in REDEFINED?
The Lounge
The group chat you didn't know you needed. This will fast become one of your go-to chats — where we celebrate the wins every week, where you'll be coached through any challenges you're facing, where we have the conversations you don't have with your friends, dating updates, friendship challenges, the harsh realities of single life that no one else gets — with a sistahood who GET IT right there with you.
Monthly Reset Call
On the first Sunday of every month we come together online in the evening to RESET ahead of the month. Think themed months e.g. January vision boarding & mid-year resets. But also journalling, honest conversation, and live coaching on whatever's actually going on for you.
Community Challenges
Confidence isn't built by talking about doing things differently — it's built by doing them, with a group of women cheering you on. In the membership you'll be added to regular challenges to push you out of your comfort zone and start stepping into your higher self. Think joy & solo date challenges, accountability and mastering those habits to build confidence and THRIVE in every area of your life. This is your season to focus on YOU, and that's exactly what we do in Redefined!
Guest Sessions
Bonus sessions from other brilliant women. Think online yoga, meditations, working with the moon, breathwork, human design. All women who have impacted my own journey and I want to share with you too!
Your Sistahood
Women who started as strangers genuinely becoming a huge part of each other's lives — even when life gets really bloody hard. There really is something so magic about putting yourself in a room with like-minded women who help you think bigger, see new perspectives — and make you realise just how amazing you really are.
In-Person Meet Ups
A chance to connect with your Redefined Sistahood IRL — because there is NOTHING quite like in person connection. No more spending your weekends feeling lonely and wondering what to do. Nice food, fun activities, maybe a few drinks, proper conversations and real friendships.
Finding real unexpected friendships.
Different women. Different lives. Same sistahood.
Come for the community — find actual friendships.
Turns out making new friends in your 30s doesn't have to be awkward.
Because your single chapter deserves celebrating too.
There's a seat for you at the table
Take your seat.
You don't have to do this chapter alone.
Minimum six-month commitment
Join the Sistahood →Hi, I'm Nic.
I'm 39 .. and I spent the majority of my 20s and early 30s living my life chasing the happily ever after. The one that everyone else seemed to be finding!
I went to so many weddings as the single one. Felt my toes curl every time someone asked "why are you still single?" Sat at brunches with the girls hearing how everyone's lives were "moving forwards", feeling like I was going wrong somewhere. Even though I'd built a career in law I was proud of, owned my own house, had a gorgeous dog - not having a partner somehow meant I was "behind".
And that led me to settling for relationships that weren't right, forcing things which didn't fit - shrinking who I was because I believed my single status defined who I was.
At 35, I REDEFINED everything.
I started working on my confidence. Unpicking the beliefs I had about myself, and what I was making the "single narrative" mean. As I did the mindset work and my confidence grew, I started booking solo trips. Taking myself for dinner. Romanticising my life. Connecting with new people. I stopped waiting for my life to begin when I met someone. And as I worked on myself more - my standards in life got WAY higher. I stopped settling for things that no longer fit.
I ReDEFINED what it meant to be single, from within - and it changed everything. And then I became a coach. And since then I've gone on to coach other single women to build a life that feels FULL outside of their relationship status. And in that process I've created a whole community of women who are ready to fck the timelines - and start creating their own. It really is magic what happens when you connect with women walking a similar path.
Being single isn't something that's happening TO you.
It's an opportunity for growth, adventure, connection, joy and confidence.
And that's what I want for every woman in their single chapter. This isn't about not wanting to meet someone. It's about building a life you genuinely love waking up to now. Trusting that love can still happen — without treating everything before it as the waiting room.
Here's to Redefining your chapter.
xxxxx
